What if the father focused on changing his thoughts?

You'll notice that this example illustrates how interconnected family relationships can be. Notice that the father began these positive changes by changing his thoughts.  He became curious (instead of critical) about his son's behavior. He then was willing to listen to his wife's insights and observations. As they interacted, each person in this example chose to do things differently and as a result felt more loved and appreciated.  A new benevolent cycle was created. Small changes can create big results!